For IE 4.0 and lower you can put in a <BR><% response.expires = 0%><BR><BR>Or on IE 5.0 and Netscape you can use:<BR><BR><% Response.ExpiresAbsolute = Now() - 1%><BR><BR>At the top of your page to force refreshes of the page and not pull it from the cache.
you can also rearrange the code in ur page to work fine. i am giving the psuedo code.<BR>1. If the delete button is clicked<BR> delete all the files which is checked<BR> end if<BR>2. Create, Open, Execute the sql ( so that when u start the page is executed first time it picks all the value and next time when u click the delete button it again executes but now it will pick only the values from the database so only we r placing this after the delete loop.).<BR>3. Write the HTML and other stuffs for displaying.<BR><BR>I think this may work fine. If not ... na it will work fine<BR>